found the order for the thunar columns in xfce4 settings because they aren't aligned with the according width in pixels.
THUNAR_COLUMN_DATE_CREATED
_DATE_ACCESSED
_DATE_MODIFIED
_DATE_DELETED
_RECENCY
_LOCATION
_GROUP
_MIME
_NAME
_OWNER
_PERMISSIONS
_SIZE
_SIZE_IN_BYTES
_TYPE
#linux #thunar